New step

I've had this blog for around a year and a half now. I started it because, besides Master, I had absolutely no one I could confide in about my new found kink; I was so very happy to be in this relationship with Master and to be getting collared by Him. I had to share the news with someone and an anonymous blog seemed the best option. After that it became a place to share to my stories that would be inappropriate for vanilla conversations, to express my thoughts on various topics within BDSM, to seek advice and all that other stuff.

I have really enjoyed having this blog, I have been so touched by all the support I've got for it too. It continually amazes me how many people want to read my thoughts, leave comments, ask questions. To everyone who has been a part of this blog, in whatever small way, I owe you such a big thanks. I love reading your feedback and hearing your stories - I think it's my favourite part of blogging.

But lately I've been finding it very hard to keep up with my regular posting and I think it's because I haven't had that same void in my life that this blog was filling. I can talk to people about M/s relationships, I can seek advice from friends, I can share stories and philosophise with all the people I've met since joining the local scene. I no longer feel the desperate need to talk about BDSM online because I'm no longer being deprived of it in my day to day conversation.

This blog has always been about BDSM, in its various forms, without much detail given to the rest of my life. So, I think I'd like to change that. Although I still keep my slave nature a secret from most of the people in my life (family, vanilla friends, work mates, class mates, and so on) my life is not nearly so rigidly divided between kink and vanilla. There is some overlap now and I relish that and I want my blog to reflect that.

So, I'm going to start a new blog. One which is not strictly BDSM, but includes the other aspects of my life as well, one which includes all of me. I'll keep the two linked to one another so it's easy to back track, but this feels like a markedly new and different approach to things so I want to start afresh.